I debated on whether to address the question that keeps popping up with my clients/friends, this is the topic of suicide. I feel the anxiety and desperation folks have with considering how to approach me with this topic. My auto response is "I don't do death, I can't advise on it." The reason being is not the act of suicide itself, it's the emotions of those left behind dealing with the aftermath. I feel these emotions as dark & negative- I do my very best to keep my cards in the light during a reading- so I never touch death because I'm too emotionally sensitive to your emotions. I can't explain it- but I feel your emotions during a reading. (If you allow me in.) As you can imagine, after a while that would take its toll on me and I'd be drained unable to do what I love- helping people. I believe this boundary has allowed my gift to blossom and help others.
Although I don't ask my cards about death or suicides, I do have strong feelings about them. I'll keep it brief- but I do believe that the deep sadness and desperation you must feel to take your own life is an illness. The main worry for loved ones is if they'd be allowed in the kingdom of heaven after taking such drastic measure to end the gift of life they were given. Are they ok? Do they hear me talk to him/her? The answer, that I believe to be true based on my personal experiences, is YES. God is love, unconditional love for all his children. He made us human and knows that naturally we'll make mistakes, we'll hurt, and we'll be weak at times. He's forgiving & understanding. He wouldn't deny someone into his kingdom because of an illness. Those lost are at peace now. They don't feel pain, not suffering any longer-they are no longer lost. They hear you because they watch over you. Those left behind are simply left to heal from their loss by focussing on living the best life they can. Find the happy suicide took from your loved one and live a beautiful life like they'd want you to. Please. We should be talking about this, it's become that thing we only discuss after it happens. Depression is real and we need to stay vigilent with our family & friends. BE SOMEONE'S REASON FOR LIVING. Tell people how much they are loved!
I love yahll!